Once,
the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) decided to stay away from his wives
for one month, as he was displeased with them on some account. He lived for
that one month in a separate room in the upper storey. A rumor that the Prophet
(Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) had divorced his wives got afloat among the
Sahabah. When 'U mar heard of this, he came running to the musjid and found the
Saliabah sitting in groups, struck with grief over the Prophet's suffering. He
went to his daughter Hafsah (Radhiyallaho anha), who was a wife of the Prophet,
and found her weeping in her room. He said to her:
"Why
are you weeping now? Have I not been warning you all these times to refrain
from any act likely to cause the Prophet's displeasure?"
He
returned to the musjid and found some of the Sahabah sitting near the pulpit
and weeping. He sat there for some time, but could not sit for long due to his
excessive grief. He went towards the room where the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe
wasallam) was staying. He found Rabah (Radhiyallaho anho), a slave, sitting on
the steps. He asked him to go and inquire of the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe
wasallam) if he could allow `Umar (Radhiyallaho anho) to see him. Rabah went
inside and came back to inform him that the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe
wasallam) held his peace and said nothing. 'Umar (Radhiyallaho anho) returned
to the musjid and sat near the pulpit. Again the anguish eating his heart would
not allow him any rest, and he requested Rabah to convey his request to the
Prophet a second time. The Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) did not make
any answer this time too. After tarrying near the pulpit for some time more,
'Umar (Radhiyallaho anho) craved per-mission to see the Prophet (Sallallaho
alaihe wasallam) for the third time. This time, his request was acceded to.
When he was ushered in, he saw the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) lying
on a date leaf matting. The crossed pattern of the matting could easily be seen
imprinted on his hand-somebody. He had a leather bag filled with the bark of
the datepahn as his pillow.
Hadhrat
'Umar (Radhiyallaho anho) says:
"I
greeted him with Assalamo alaikum and inquired: 'Have you divorced your wives,
O, Prophet of Allah?" He answered in the negative. Much relieved, then I
made bold to remark, a bit amusingly; '0, Prophet of Allah! we the Qureysh have
always been having the upper hand over our women, but in case of the Ansar of
Madinah, it is the women who have the upper hand. Our women have also got
influenced by the women over here'. I said a few more similar things which made
him smile. I noticed that the contents of his room consisted of only three
pieces of tanned skin and a handful of barley lying in a corner. I looked
about, but I failed to find anything else. I began to weep. He said; 'Why are
you weeping?' I replied: '0, Prophet of Allah! why should I not weep? I can see
the mat's pat-tern imprinted on your body, and I am also beholding all that you
have got in this room. 0, Prophet of Allah! Pray that Allah may grant ample
provisions for us. The Persians and the Romans who have no true faith and who
worship not Allah but their kings—Caesar and Chosroes— presently live in gardens
with streams running in their midst, but the chosen Prophet and the accepted
slave of Allah does live in such a dire poverty!' The Prophet (Sallallaho
alaihe wasallam) was resting against his pillow, but when he heard me talk like
this, he sat up and said; 'O, 'Umar! are you still in doubt about this matter?
Ease and comfort in the Hereafter are much better than ease and comfort in this
world. The unbelievers are enjoying their share of the good things in this very
world, whereas we have all such things in store for us in the next. I implored
him: '0, Prophet of Allah! Ask forgiveness for me. I was really in the
wrong"
Look
at the household effects of the sovereign in this i world and in the hereafter,
and the beloved Prophet of Allah. See how he rebukes Time when he asks him to
pray for some relief and comfort.
Somebody
inquired of A'ishah (Radhiyallaho anha) about the bedding of the Prophet
(Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) in her house. She said:
"It
consisted of a skin filled with the bark of date-palm."
The
same question was put to Hafsah (Radhiyallaho anha); she said:
"It
consisted of a piece of canvas, which I spread double folded under him. Once I
laid it fourfold in an effort to make it more comfortable. The next morning he
asked me: 'What did you spread under me last night?' I replied: 'The same
canvas, but I had four-folded it instead of the customary double fold.' He
said: 'Keep it as it was before. The additional softness stands in the way of
getting up for Tahajjud."
Now
let us look around and survey the furniture of our bedrooms. We, who live in so
much comfort, never hesitate to complain of hard times, instead of being
grateful and more obedient to Allah for his bounties.
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